Love this!! Thanks for writing, it’s a wake-up call to lots of people!!
I’ve been in this situation, and heard that phrase, numerous times in my life. Back when I was a bit younger, I was making excuses for the non-committal guy I s with at the time who I was chasing.
Luckily, being "older" had made me wiser and more secure that I no longer do this. It’s a wonderful feeling (For one benefit, it saves mileage and wear and tear on my car).
I hope women who read this will take it to heart — and share it with their friends who might need this advice --and quit the usually-futile practice of chasing.