Why yes, you can call me gramma if you want

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“Hahaha, I’m not old enough to be a grandma!” said the pretty brunette 40-something-year-old woman, a businessperson in my neighborhood, when I asked her once whether any of her children had given her grandchildren. Immediately in my mind I thought, “Old?!?! What does that have to do with it? Having grandkids doesn’t make us ‘old’, it simply means our child(ren) are old enough to reproduce themselves as small…